Saturday, October 8, 2011

Unexpected Call...

Dropping the bags of groceries I was carrying on the table just now, I answered the phone. It was an unfamiliar number on the caller ID. Expecting a telemarketer, (delay after answering and a poor connection), it took me a moment to catch what the caller was saying, but he asked for me by name. I said it was me, and then he told me his name. I replied "oh..........hi."  

He either didn't catch my response, or thought perhaps I'd misheard him, so he further clarified, stating his name and adding "your father". 

I haven't heard his voice in 3 years...since the last time I saw him.  It's been 4 years since I had talked to or saw my mother.  

"We're at Temple Square (downtown Salt Lake City) and even though it's last-minute, we're wondering if we can take you guys to dinner."

I'm not usually quick on my feet in such situations, so my default tendency is to decline. But I surprised myself (and probably him) by being open to the possibility.   "Let me check...can you hold on for a minute?"

I asked my family what they thought.  They agreed to the idea. So here we go...20 minutes till we meet them at a restaurant. I don't know what will happen, but I do know it won't be nothing.  Here goes...


10 comments:

Shelah said...

I'm thinking of you! Hope it goes well!

Donna said...

Good luck...hoping all goes well!

Janell said...

This is going to sound like and echo, but truly. Good luck. I hope things go well for you.

Keri Bryant said...

Ummmm...I want a phone call about this. Next week? Love you.

Juliana said...

Crossing my fingers and toes that all went well. Sending love...

My Heart Squared said...

WOW! You are amazing to me, Miss Blue. You know what I think of you. You are a pioneer. One, amazing pioneer!

Heather said...

i hope it went well for you blue, i really do. hope we hear from you about it soon.

~j. said...

Hope it went just as you wanted it to.

Anonymous said...

Oh my, I would be totally petrified. I'm very curious how it went.

Anonymous said...

You don't know me, I found your blog thru another blog. I have spent some time this morning and last night reading. I just want you to know that you have a beautiful way of expressing yourself. I am still trying to put your story together and I am assuming (forgive me if I am wrong) that you are recovering from sexual abuse. I want you to know that I think you are brave and beautiful and especially inspiring.